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Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputationtold me that "a 'slut' is a girl or woman who deviates from norms of femininity. The 'slut' is not necessarily sexually active — she just doesn't follow the gender script.

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It seems the the only hard and fast rule is that you have to be a woman. Men, of course, are immune — absent, Cssual — from the frenzy of concern.

For instance, a new study out of the University of Michigan showed that teen girls who "sext" are called sluts while boys who do the same remain free-from judgement. In another example, the American Medical Association breathlessly ttalk a study in with the headline "Sex and Intoxication More Common Among Women on Spring Break", intended to warn women about their "risky" behavior while on break — but there was nothing about the men the majority of these young women would supposedly be having all this drunken sex with.

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The accusation doesn't have to be that explicit to have real power. Cherice Moralez — raped by her 49 year-old teacher when she was just 14 — was called "older than her chronological age" by the judge in the trial — a more diplomatic way of saying she had it coming.

Her attacker was Casual talk to sluts to 30 days in jail.

Moralez Casua took her own life. Multiple girls have taken their own lives of late after being "slut-shamed" — an indication that the slur shows little sign of waning in the damage it does personally.

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While the anti-rape protests that spread across the country a few years ago were Casual talk to sluts in terms of lsuts and media coverage, and I was an early supporter Casual talk to sluts, many women felt the word "slut" was irredeemable - especially women of colorfor slust racist stereotypes about their supposed innate promiscuity always 35674 slutty girls a unique danger.

The "slut" idea hurts women politically as well. A safe contraceptive and a cancer vaccine were both held up for years because of fears they would make women "slutty", and anti-choice legislators and activists insist that that abortion providers are in the "business" of promiscuity — and use that accusation as a Mature sluts women of Watertown to defund critical health care providers like Planned Parenthood.

So, what's a "slut", then? It's any of us, and all of Casual talk to sluts — especially those of us who step out of line in some way real or imaginary. It has little to do with the number of our sexual partners, or the way we dress or flirt, or if we take birth control or not. It's a warning more than a word — a reminder to women that we must adhere to the narrow standards of femininity and sexuality set out for us, or be punished accordingly.

And in that way, the real meaning of "slut" is terrifyingly clear.

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