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Women are more interested in what other women think above all else. It is all unconcious nature at work. Life was never fair, so we men have to learn to work together and build bromances etc. What else should we do?
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I currently go to community college and met people my age who still live with their parents and they do have girlfriends or boyfriends. Some tips for all us single men…………. Continue being yourself. Not someone else. If you want to find someone, you can go out more or find a hobby that interest you. Plus it sounds like Kate is being overally pointed for the glamour which is fine, whatever. You need to love yourself and give this Looming to the women you meet without expecting anything in return.
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